I've been single for 15yrs. Hell, I haven't had sex (other than with myself) in 16yrs. Sure there's Craigslist. Not my type of thing. I'm not, and have never been, interested in anon hookups. Been there, tried that. Didn't like it.
Why is it so hard to meet guys in real life? There's nowhere here to meet guys, unless it's the bar (meat market), the nude beach or online. Call me old fashioned. I actually want to meet a guy and get to know him a bit before hopping between the sheets.
There's nothing here like what there was (and still is) in my hometown. That was OIM (Out In Montana). It was easy to meet people. I made friends. I even slept with a couple guys that I met there.
Here? Nada. No such thing. Believe me, I've looked.
Where does a middle aged man (55, look younger) look? I'm not hard on the eyes even though I've gained weight.
I feel like I'm going to grow old alone. Nobody to share my life with. Discouraging.
Doesn't help that I live in the conservative side of the state. Can't afford to move over the mountains to Seattle. One would think that in a metro area of almost 500K, there would be more going on. Nope.
I live in a city that's the largest one you'll find between Seattle and the Twin Cities. And I feel like I'm living in a desert. Been here for 30yrs now.
Only been in one ltr, that lasted 15yrs. 12 were good, the last 3 weren't. I got out.
Sorry to be spilling. Today is a down day for me. Hopefully tomorrow is better.
Why is it so hard to meet guys in real life? There's nowhere here to meet guys, unless it's the bar (meat market), the nude beach or online. Call me old fashioned. I actually want to meet a guy and get to know him a bit before hopping between the sheets.
There's nothing here like what there was (and still is) in my hometown. That was OIM (Out In Montana). It was easy to meet people. I made friends. I even slept with a couple guys that I met there.
Here? Nada. No such thing. Believe me, I've looked.
Where does a middle aged man (55, look younger) look? I'm not hard on the eyes even though I've gained weight.
I feel like I'm going to grow old alone. Nobody to share my life with. Discouraging.
Doesn't help that I live in the conservative side of the state. Can't afford to move over the mountains to Seattle. One would think that in a metro area of almost 500K, there would be more going on. Nope.
I live in a city that's the largest one you'll find between Seattle and the Twin Cities. And I feel like I'm living in a desert. Been here for 30yrs now.
Only been in one ltr, that lasted 15yrs. 12 were good, the last 3 weren't. I got out.
Sorry to be spilling. Today is a down day for me. Hopefully tomorrow is better.