boyfriend

frist off this is not about me,,,,its about my friend


ok so my friend asked me what i would do,,, tom (not his real name) thinks his bf chris (not his real name) maybe seeing some one,well let me back up some tom and chris been together for 3 or 4 years and they would do the normal things, but the last few years chris seems to be goin out more on his own with a friends of his,yes his friend is gay to and is in a open relationship. so anyways what has been happing is that tom and chris been spending lose time together tom told me he cant even remember the last time they had sex, they talk now and then and see each other for a few mins aday someday they dont even see each other..

tom has told me that he would be talkin to chris on skype (they dont live together) and chris will say "oh i have to go help his friend sam (not his real name), and will be gone most of the day or will say hes goin out some place with him. this has been goin on for over a year and thats about when things between tom and chris had changed, tom dont know what he should do, i told him to talk to chris but tom dont like to talk about things like that,with out know if his feeling is true,..

i told tom he needs to talk to chris about it and every thing else and has changed with them....so im here to ask what you guys would do or have any help i can give to tom.