Hi everyone,
I'm back with some much needed wisdom. It's regarding the guy I am crushing on (part 1 here).
So things have progressed quite a bit. We've hooked up all the way once after the initial encounter and fooled around just earlier this week, and our interactions have been pretty 50/50 (and daily) now vs me doing all the leg work. He sends me pics of himself at work or in the car, and we say good morning to one another every other day or so.
In addition, we basically see each other like 2-3 times/week (helps that we live in the same condo) and end up cuddling watching movies with one another or cooking for each other.
Now, I can't tell if this is just a normal thing gay friends do, cause he's told me he loves to cuddle in general. Or are these things you generally only do with people you want to end up in a relationship with?
Also, his messages are back and forth. He'll call me his cutie and boo, which makes me think he is into me, but last night he said "you're a nice guy [insert name]. And you're awesome." That comment sounds like friendzones with benefits to me (though I found it odd/interesting he called me by my first name when he said it), or I'm over thinking the comment.
My only hesitant with being open about this is because he is still relatively fresh out of his former relationship, and I don't want to scare him and lose him in general.
What do you all think?
I'm back with some much needed wisdom. It's regarding the guy I am crushing on (part 1 here).
So things have progressed quite a bit. We've hooked up all the way once after the initial encounter and fooled around just earlier this week, and our interactions have been pretty 50/50 (and daily) now vs me doing all the leg work. He sends me pics of himself at work or in the car, and we say good morning to one another every other day or so.
In addition, we basically see each other like 2-3 times/week (helps that we live in the same condo) and end up cuddling watching movies with one another or cooking for each other.
Now, I can't tell if this is just a normal thing gay friends do, cause he's told me he loves to cuddle in general. Or are these things you generally only do with people you want to end up in a relationship with?
Also, his messages are back and forth. He'll call me his cutie and boo, which makes me think he is into me, but last night he said "you're a nice guy [insert name]. And you're awesome." That comment sounds like friendzones with benefits to me (though I found it odd/interesting he called me by my first name when he said it), or I'm over thinking the comment.
My only hesitant with being open about this is because he is still relatively fresh out of his former relationship, and I don't want to scare him and lose him in general.
What do you all think?