I recently came out of a 5Yr Relationship March this year, it was realistically over April 2014 when My Ex & I, split the first time... Any way Jan. this year I was matched w/- a guy on Compatible Partners, communication started out great, but went dead after 3 weeks when he blocked communication after I took awhile to respond...
March this year I found him on Scruff & we got talking & eventually met in person... Things were alittle tricky, but we seemed to be getting on well, he eventually confessed he had feelings for me as I did him, he said we would just take it slow till I felt I was ready for more (his been single 3Yrs this Sept.) - he was with his last partner for 10Yrs, but he was cheated on badly! So has some understandable insecurities!
Everything was going fine till last Tues. 21/7/15, I was to take him out for dinner Sun.12/7/15, but he cancelled on me & seemed rather distant... I found out a now "former" friend of mine had been "meddling" in the background, & twisting things that were said to suit themselves!
This he confided in me Mon. 20/7/15 there was a lot of he said / she said going on, he wasn't sure whom to believe & she had been ringing him constantly harrassing him at work!
Things have gone sour betwn this "former" friend & I as she has defrauded me of $5000 for cancer treatment (which I now don't think she even has!) & is refusing to start paying instalments to pay it back, I have since found out she also tried to hit up the guy I've been seeing for $10'000, he automatically distanced himself from her & told me, I wish you had never introduced me to her! (He wasn't the only one wishing He'd never met her, so did I!)
Fast forward to Tues. 21/7/15, when everything went into meltdown, he said with this "former" friends meddling, he no longer wanted to be in a relationship w/- me as he couldn't cope w/- it being a constant 3Way relationship with he interfering when it should just be between he & I, I agreed she needed to "butt" out & leave it to us to grow, he said due to the stess of it all he needs some space...
Later that night after a 3way chat between the meddling bitch, he & I - he hung up on the call then text me: "why did you tell me you sent her the SMS with demand for payment w/- bank details, here I am trying to help you to get her to start paying you back & you back out & land me in the shit! I'll make your life real easy & take me out of it, good luck & thanks for the chats!" I SMS' him back to calm down, sit & cool off... He came back "As I said Monday, there's too much he said / she said going on, I really don't know whom to believe!?" So I said we'll take some space & I'll sort this mess with The Bitch & contact him in a few weeks... He didn't reply...
He works as the manager at a storage place I storage somethings at, Tues. 28/7/15 he sent me an invoice for my storage which is due Tues. 11/8/15 (This is the first time I've ever had an invoice emailed - I'd usually pay it in person, but the storage unit was in credit by 2 Months & due again in August, so he may have just been doing formalities)
So how should I handle it!? I said I'd contact him in a few weeks... What should I do?
It's now Mon. 3/8/15 - I still haven't heard anything from him, but I did say to him I'd contact him in a few weeks (late Aug) once I got some current medical issues out of the way... (having Wisdom teeth out today Mon. 3 Aug)...
Any ideas folks?
March this year I found him on Scruff & we got talking & eventually met in person... Things were alittle tricky, but we seemed to be getting on well, he eventually confessed he had feelings for me as I did him, he said we would just take it slow till I felt I was ready for more (his been single 3Yrs this Sept.) - he was with his last partner for 10Yrs, but he was cheated on badly! So has some understandable insecurities!
Everything was going fine till last Tues. 21/7/15, I was to take him out for dinner Sun.12/7/15, but he cancelled on me & seemed rather distant... I found out a now "former" friend of mine had been "meddling" in the background, & twisting things that were said to suit themselves!
This he confided in me Mon. 20/7/15 there was a lot of he said / she said going on, he wasn't sure whom to believe & she had been ringing him constantly harrassing him at work!
Things have gone sour betwn this "former" friend & I as she has defrauded me of $5000 for cancer treatment (which I now don't think she even has!) & is refusing to start paying instalments to pay it back, I have since found out she also tried to hit up the guy I've been seeing for $10'000, he automatically distanced himself from her & told me, I wish you had never introduced me to her! (He wasn't the only one wishing He'd never met her, so did I!)
Fast forward to Tues. 21/7/15, when everything went into meltdown, he said with this "former" friends meddling, he no longer wanted to be in a relationship w/- me as he couldn't cope w/- it being a constant 3Way relationship with he interfering when it should just be between he & I, I agreed she needed to "butt" out & leave it to us to grow, he said due to the stess of it all he needs some space...
Later that night after a 3way chat between the meddling bitch, he & I - he hung up on the call then text me: "why did you tell me you sent her the SMS with demand for payment w/- bank details, here I am trying to help you to get her to start paying you back & you back out & land me in the shit! I'll make your life real easy & take me out of it, good luck & thanks for the chats!" I SMS' him back to calm down, sit & cool off... He came back "As I said Monday, there's too much he said / she said going on, I really don't know whom to believe!?" So I said we'll take some space & I'll sort this mess with The Bitch & contact him in a few weeks... He didn't reply...
He works as the manager at a storage place I storage somethings at, Tues. 28/7/15 he sent me an invoice for my storage which is due Tues. 11/8/15 (This is the first time I've ever had an invoice emailed - I'd usually pay it in person, but the storage unit was in credit by 2 Months & due again in August, so he may have just been doing formalities)
So how should I handle it!? I said I'd contact him in a few weeks... What should I do?
It's now Mon. 3/8/15 - I still haven't heard anything from him, but I did say to him I'd contact him in a few weeks (late Aug) once I got some current medical issues out of the way... (having Wisdom teeth out today Mon. 3 Aug)...
Any ideas folks?