So I have been going out with this guy for 3 times. He is more than 20 years older than me and has never dated since high school. He doesnt seem to have many friends either- just work and go home. I met him online and the first two times he initiated to meet him and took me to places around town- I was new to the area. He was very nice, very accomodating, and attentive to what I said. We had a good time together. However, he never called me after our dates. We only exchanged Emails but even then, I have to email him first. I called him and asked him out on the third date. We had a great time and he even said heaven must have sent me to him. He is very honest. He told me on our third date ( because I asked) that he has not gotten tested for a long time but still engage in casual sex. I told him that is dangerous and that he should get tested soon. After that night, he emailed me telling me that he has been contacting and going to clinics after work to get more information about testing but all of them are closed by the time he is out of work. He said he will be meeting with his primary physician soon to ask about it. Other than that, he never called or emailed me to tell me how he is or what he is doing. He only emails when he wants to warn me about extreme weathers and what to do in those situations. I like the guy but I am not sure if he wants to date or just wants someone to hang out. I did tell him the first time we met that I am bi and that I want to take it slow. But I would imagine that after our third dates, the guy would initiate or at least call to chat. I am sorry if this is long but I just want some opinions. thanks
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